I apologize if I'm about to give you more information than you really wanted to know about how this topic came up today!  I woke up yesterday morning with the worst headache I think I've ever had.  The pain was concentrated only on the right side of my head, which was different than any other headache I'd ever experienced before.  I got up and was overwhelmed with nausea and ended up getting sick.  I took a couple of Ibuprofin after that and decided to head to work, still in excrutiating pain.  The sunlight seemed to make the pain worse and I had to turn my car radio way down because noise was an issue as well.  I got to work and had to feed the feral cats that live on the property and got sick again as soon as I went inside. After about an hour, I ran into a co-worker who took one look at me and said "You need to go home".   I did, and pretty much slept all day.  When I woke up, the headache was finally gone.

I wasn't aware of it then, but after talking to several migraine sufferers and doing some of my own research on the web, that's exactly what I had yesterday.  I'd never had one before (and hope to never have one again), but I do have some ideas what triggered it.  For one, it was the day before my period started and the sudden drop in estrogen is sometimes a trigger (women suffer migraines more frequently than men) and another factor was probably the couple of glasses red wine I drank the night before (due to the tannins, another trigger.  For a complete list of possible causes and triggers for migraines, click here). 

Luckily, I found a list of alternative and complementary treatments on the Mayo Clinic website that may help:

Accupunture:  It's not routinely recommended by medical professionals for treatment of migraines, but clinical trials have shown that it may indeed be helpful for headaches.

Biofeedback: This technique, which monitors and helps you control responses in your body, has proven to be extremely helpful in treating migraines.  It's also safe to use in combination with migraine medications.

Massage:  While massages value on treating headaches hasn't been determined, it is an effective tool for reducing stress, as we know, and stress is yet another trigger.

Herbal, mineral and/or vitamin supplements:  Butterbur and Feverfew, both herbal supplements, may prevent migraines altogether and at the very least reduce their severity (as always, check with your doctor and do not take if you are pregnant).  Vitamin B2, Coenzyme Q10 and Magnesium sulfate supplements may also help prevent the trigger of migraines (again, discuss with your doctor).

Hopefully you'll never suffer from these, but here's some ammo to add to your arsenal if you ever do!  Until next time...

A couple of weeks ago, the world lost a great actor, Charlton Heston.  Although the cause of death hasn't been officially announced, Mr. Heston did suffer from Alzheimer's disease.  Below is Charlton and his wife, Lydia, being interviewed by Peter Jennings in 2002, just after Charleton announced to the public that he had the disease (more following the video):


Alzheimer's is a progressive and fatal brain disease that was discovered by (and named after) German physician Alois Alzheimer who first made note of the condition in 1905. The disease destroys brain cells and is the leading form of dementia, with over 5 million people suffering from the disease.  No one reason can be cited for causing the disease, but there are certain risk factors to be aware of:

  • Age-persons over the age of 65 are at the greatest risk and once a person reaches 85, the risk of contracting Alzheimer's jumps to 50%
  • Family History- Persons having a close blood relative that has Alzheimer's, such as a child, sibling or parent, are at greater risk for contracting it
  • Genetics- Genes play a role in determining whether someone will contract the disease and scientists have identified a gene called apolipoprotein E-e4 (APOE-e4) which contributes and they believe there are many others that have not yet been discovered.

Alzheimer's has no cure, but it is one disease where alternative and complementary treatments are being experimented with.  The herb Ginko Biloba is showing great promise so far and is being studied for use in treating dementia and Alzeimer's by the University of Pittsburgh as well as several other facilities.  Huperzine A, an extract from moss that has been used in Traditional Chinese Medicine for centuries is also showing great promise.  Small studies show that it may be as effective as some of the medications currently being used to treat the disease.  Furthermore, Omega 3 Fatty Acids may play a role in preventing the onset of dementia and Alzheimer's and further studies are merited.  To read about these treatments and others that have been examined, take a look here.  Until next time, stay healthy!


In case you haven't noticed, there is a reoccurring "theme" that is prevalent in the complementary/alternative medicine field: the need for the energy in the body to be balanced before healing can occur.  Polarity therapy is definitely not the exception to that rule!  In fact, energy balance is the sole purpose of this type of therapy.  The Polarity Therapy model states that good health occurs when:
  1.  Energy Systems function in their natural state and
  2.  Energy flows smoothly without significant blockage or fixation.

The therapy was founded by Dr. Randolf Stone who studied energy in relation to the healing arts over the course of his 60 year career.  He found that many things affect the bodies energy field (either positively or negatively) including diet, exercise, sound, relationships, life experiences and environmental factors, to name a few.  Therefore, Polarity Therapy is a comprehensive system that incorporates energy based body work, diet, exercise and self-awareness in order to release blockages in the bodies energy field and restore the body to it's natural healthy state.

In a typical Polarity Therapy Session, the practitioner uses several techniques to assess the current state of that person's energy field, including observation, interviewing and palpation.  The practitioner then uses "Energy Touch"  which typically involves soft touching and rocking as well as some point specific energy work.  A typical session lasts between 60 and 90 minutes.

The video below shows an example of a Polarity Therapy session and the site I've linked to above is the official Polarity Therapy website with a wealth of additional information.  Until next time, enjoy!



No one is perfect... that's why pencils have erasers.  ~Author Unknown

You are over the pain of diagnosis, and have accepted the fact that your child is Autism Ribbon.autistic. A treatment plan has been set up that you are satisfied with, so, what's next? You need to learn how to live with your little one at home, and keep your sanity. Today I will give you some helpful hints for your mental health and that of your family.

You will have to change your expectations because one of the biggest challenges to overcome is that your child will probably never be on par with his/her peers as far as development and appropriate behavior goes. Nor will he/she become the lawyer that you had hoped, but there are attainable goals, they are just not the ones you had dreamed of. With this in mind, begin with small steps as far as expectations. Be patient because with your help, your child can reach his/her unique potential.

It is important to monitor sensory input since many autistic little ones become agitated by over stimulation. Learn to interpret body language so that you know when your child is becoming overwhelmed. For example, if he/she starts screaming, rocking, holding their ears, etc., a tranquil retreat will help. You can accomplish this very easily by setting up a safety zone or creating a private space for your child where he/she can relax, and feel secure. You may also want to set up  boundaries that your child will comprehend. You can use visual clues like colorful tape to mark the areas that are off limits. If your little one is prone to tantrums you will have to child proof your home so that there are no accidents.

Channel unusual actions into socially acceptable behavior. If your child engages in spinning, climbing on furniture, rocking to and fro, etc., try to turn this around into something that is acceptable, like climbing on a jungle gym, or spinning on a tire swing. Don't take him/her to the grocery store if you know that it will cause discomfort and inappropriate responses.

When you want your child to do something, make sure that you give simple, step by step directions verbally, visually and by offering physical support, as needed. Since autistic children have difficulty understanding facial expressions, body language and voice tone, you need to be very concrete and explicit when offering feedback and directions.

Always reward good behavior with some type of positive reinforcement. Try to "catch your child doing something good". Be aware of his/her strengths and build on them so that you can tap into ways to help them succeed. Allow plenty of time for practice. Give praise when their behavior is appropriate, or when they have learned a new skill, be very specific about what you are complimenting. Find out what they would like for a reward and give it to them when deserved. Pay attention to the positive rather than the negative whenever you can.

Remember that consistency is the key to success while helping your child to learn. Talk to the therapist and try to mimic the techniques that are being used in therapy. Set up a schedule that you will be able to stick to since autistic children thrive in a highly structured environment. Set up a routine with regular times for eating, therapy, school, and bedtime. Avoid schedule changes whenever you can so that your little one feels safe and secure.  If a change in routine is unavoidable, prepare in advance for it.

Since you know your child best, help siblings by teaching them about autism. Once they understand how to relate to each other, life at home will be much easier. Make sure that the family interacts with your autistic little one in such a way as to get a positive response from him/her. By acting in this manner, your autistic child will learn how to relate to others in an acceptable way. Getting along and acting appropriately in the home setting helps build socialization skills for the outside world.

Spend time having fun with your child. There has to be life after therapy and school. You know the old saying,"all work and no play makes Roger a dull person". Think of ways to play together. Most importantly, enjoy your child's company.

Lastly, you have to stop worrying about what others will think or say. They may see autistic behavior as weird, odd, or unruly. It really doesn't matter what they think, you know that you are doing the best that you can. "Normal" behavior is relative anyways.

There is a saying that pain eases with time, so it goes with autism, the early years are the most difficult, as your little one gets older, things will improve. So keep the faith and know that there is a light at the end of the tunnel.

Remember to be patient and stay optimistic, things are not hopeless. Your child  has a lifetime to learn and grow. You can help to make it happen.

In closing, I would like to share a wonderful video with you from Film for Youth, entitled  Living with Autism from an Autistic Person's Perspective.


Over the next few posts I will be looking at the different options there are for diets. I'd like to start by taking a look at some important basics. First off, let me say that when I talk about diet, I'm talking about a continuing plan of nutrition and exercise for healthy living, not a get thin quick plan. We'll evaluate those at a later time.

In this blog we will talk about the original "Alternative Medicine", Vitamins.

There has been a lot of discussion on vitamins over the years. Some swear by them, and some say that they are useless. It's important to understand them to make an educated decision on what kind of diet best fits your lifestyle. Let's start off by discussing just what they are.

Vitamins are naturally occurring nutrients that your body needs, but can not produce on its own. While it is true that your body does eventually expel any vitamins that it intakes, it's important to take a look at what they do while they are in your body. (Remember, your body passes all pharmaceuticals as well, but we all know that they have an effect while in our bodies.)

Today we will look at a few key vitamins and their benefits.

Vitamin D: 60% of us do not get enough vitamin D. This is a very important vitamin for your immune system, and believe it or not, we get this vitamin naturally from sun exposure. Due to the heightened awareness of the dangers of melanoma many of us do not get enough sun exposure on our skin to produce enough vitamin D. This is why it's important to take recommended amounts of this vitamin.

Vitamin B: This vitamin is very important in brain and nerve functions, fetal development in pregnancy, boosting metabolism, and even can help with nausea.

Vitamins A, C, and E are your anti-oxidants. Our bodies are constantly exposed to oxygen, which is very beneficial for many bodily functions. The problem with oxygen exposure is "rusting". For an example of this, let's do a little experiment.

Take an apple and cut it in half. Leave one half alone, and then squirt some lemon on the exposed side of the second half, and let them both sit for half an hour or so. After that you will notice that the untreated side has "rusted", while the side that you have exposed to an anti-oxidant remains "fresh". This is a very basic demonstration of what anti-oxidants do for your body.

One of the best sources of anti-oxidants is actually coffee, but other great sources are bananas and green tea.

Another very important supplement is the Omega 3 Fish Oils. These are key for health in your heart, brain, and can even increase IQ.

These are just a few basics about the important vitamins, we will use these for reference in future blogs. As always, consult your doctor before making any changes in diet or lifestyle.

Much of this discussion is reflected in the book You: Staying Young by Dr. Mehemet C. Oz, who is often featured on the Oprah show.

So we took a break from mental health for a while to look at a few more fun topics. (Did you groove today?) Now I'd like to swing back and talk about something that I found while digging around the net the other day.

We've talked a lot about mental health, and there are thousands of websites out there dedicated to helping people understand and cope with different kinds of mental illnesses and disorders, but we never really defined what mental health is!



The American Psychiatric Association has long been the organization that defines mental illnesses and disorders. It has only recently started to note that mental health is more than just the lack of mental illness. Through a study of the characteristics that make up mental health, there has been a realization that there are different levels of mental health among people who do not suffer from any form of mental illness. Here are some of the characteristics of what makes up mental health:

The ability to enjoy life

While it is important for us to plan for the future, we have to have the ability to live in the moment and enjoy life. If our entire life is consumed with planing for the future and what may come, we don't stop and enjoy our everyday lives.

Resilience

This is our ability to bounce back from adversity. We all know that some people handle stress better than others. Those who are able to deal with their lives and what they have been given seem to have more resilience than those who repeat the hardships in their lives by continuing to stress about them.

Balance

Balance is very important in life. We have to balance time we spend with others with time that we spend alone. We have to have a work-life balance. We have to balance the amount of energy we spend looking out for others with the amount that we spend looking out for ourselves. People who can find this balance have better mental health that those who let the scales tip to one side or the other.

Self-actualization

This has to do with how we deal with what we are given in life. Some seem to flourish and exceed expectations with what they are given in life, while others seem to squander the gifts that they are given.

Flexibility

People who are very rigid in their lives often fall prey to stress because of the inability to cope with changing circumstances. Those who can roll with the punches seem to have better mental health, and the ability to better deal with the major challenges that life sets forth.

There are many other factors to mental health, such as the ability to form strong relationships, self esteem, and even healthy sexuality. How a person deals with grief and loss also contributes to a persons mental health.

As always, I remind you that overall health encompasses a lot of factors, taking little steps towards healthy living makes a HUGE difference!





Children seldom misquote.  In fact, they usually repeat word for word what you shouldn't have said.  ~Author Unknown

Today I would like to give you more information about autism by focusing on how a person is diagnosed with this disorder. All of the research that I have done says that the earlier a diagnosis is made, the better the prognosis. Therefore, it is of utmost importance to be aware of the early warning signs so that your little one has a better chance of growing up normally. The American Academy of Pediatrics suggests that infants be routinely examined for developmental disorders like autism and be tested no later than 9 months or earlier. As a diagnostic tool, your doctor should administer a developmental screening test and ask specific questions about your baby's development. Remember, it is better to be safe than sorry, especially where your youngster is concerned.

Let's take a look at the normal stages a baby goes through.
  • Shortly after birth, a  healthy newborn will gaze into your eyes.
  • By 5-6 months, your offspring will smile and respond to you by gurgling, cooing and looking into your eyes.
  • Babies usually respond to their name by a few months of age.
  • After the first year, your baby will be attracted to an object or event that you are looking at. This is known as joint attention. In addition to this, they will shift their gaze from people to toys, or look towards something that you are pointing at. They will also point to things by themselves and show their toys to you.
  • A typical baby  of 8-10 months, will mimic you by copying face movements such as sticking out their tongue, or by imitating sounds that you make,etc.
  • Babies show emotional responses to others, they may cry if they hear another child crying.
  • By age two, little ones pretend to do the same things that you are doing. For instance, they may pretend to change a doll's diapers, or fix their hair,etc.
Here are some of the first signs that indicate something is wrong.  
  • There is an absence of eye contact with you.
  • Your infant is two months old and doesn't respond to their name when you say it.
  • Your baby constantly focuses on an inanimate object in the room, like a ceiling fan.
  • You make a loud sound, and your infant doesn't respond by the time he/she is two months old.
  • You play with your baby and he/she doesn't respond nor is there a response to their name between 2-4 months.
  • Your tyke doesn't react to you with smiles and sounds by 8-9 months.
  • Your child doesn't point to objects, gesture or take your hand to locate a toy by 12-16 months.
  • Your little one does not say single words by 16 months or two word phrases by 24 months.
  • You have noticed a loss of language or social skills at any age.
Since symptoms of autism vary so much from individual to individual, a baby or child exhibiting some of the behaviors that I have mentioned should be evaluated further by a multidisciplinary team consisting of a neurologist, developmental pediatrician, speech/language pathologist, a mental health practitioner such as a psychiatrist, or psychologist, a learning consultant or anyone else who is well versed in this condition. Before making a diagnosis of autism, they need to rule out other medical disorders such as deafness, Retts Syndrome, or Childhood Disintegrative Disorder (CDD) as well as a few others. By using this type of approach you are more apt to get an accurate and thorough diagnosis, as well as a plan for treatment.

Now for some of the screening techniques that are used.
  1. CARS rating scale (Childhood Autism Rating Scale), that was developed by Eric Schipler in the 1970s. In essence it is a 15 point scale that is used by your doctor or mental health therapist to look at your baby's "relationship to people, body use, reaction to change, listening response, and verbal communication." This assessment not only identifies autism in children but it separates them from developmentally handicapped children who do not have this disorder.An effective way to describe behaviors in question would be to make a video of your child.
  2. Another screening technique is the Checklist for Autism in Toddlers (CHAT). This is employed to screen for autism at 18 months of age. Developed in the early 1990s by Simon Baron-Cohen, this assessment consists of a short two part questionnaire; one section for parents and the other for the doctor to fill out.
  3. An Autism Screening Questionnaire may also be used which is a forty item scale that has been successfully used with children four years old or older. It evaluates communication skills and social functioning.
  4. Last, I would like to mention a screening test that is in development by Wendy Stone at Vanderbilt College for two year olds. It employs one to one observations of behavioral characteristics seen in children.  Three skill areas have been identified as key factors in autism, they are play, motor imitation and joint attention or looking at the same object as their mom or dad.
Opponents of testing for autism at this early age believe that it may cause undue labeling of a child who exhibits normal variations in developmental behavior. However, there are two sides to every coin and as the old adage goes, "an ounce of prevention is worth a pound in cure". More importantly, you have to do what you believe is best for you and your baby.

A diagnosis of autism can be a very difficult time for you, especially at the beginning. There are a myriad of emotions such as confusion, anger and despair that may plague you at this time. Know that this is normal and it will pass. Hopefully time will heal your pain as you learn to live with your child and help him/her to become the best person that they can be. If however, you cannot get over the hurt and hopelessness, there are mental health counselors and therapists who can help you to deal with the situation.

Stay tuned for my next blog which will tell you about treatment options for autism.


Information that may be of interest.
Hair analysis study to diagnose autism.
Autism, Hair Analysis and Mercury



Children are one third of our population and all of our future. 
~Select Panel for the Promotion of Child Health, 1981


Hopefully, my last health blog that dealt with the history and symptoms of autism was both interesting and informative. Today, I will stray from mental health issues, as I would like to continue my discussion of autism by letting you in on some of the underlying reasons for this modern day "epidemic". As in many illnesses, there isImages of a healthy vs autistic brain. not just one cause, but several. The medical community, however, has accepted the fact that autism is caused by abnormalities in the structure of the brain or the way that it functions. Interestingly, if you were to look at the brain of a normal individual v.s the autistic persons brain, you would see that the shapes and structures are different.

Those in the medical field are looking into many theories that include a link between genetics, heredity and medical issues. It has Reference & Imagebeen found that in some families, there seems to be a pattern of autism or related disabilities that indicate a genetic basis. Research is looking into the possibility that there may be atypical pieces of the genetic code that autistic children have inherited. Recent discoveries in "two areas of the genome, states that a region on chromosome 1 is suspected of having links to autism, and aberrations in a brain-development gene called neuroxin 1"may indicate that there is, in fact a gene responsible for this illness."  If this gene can be isolated, perhaps a cure will be developed.

In addition to heredity, there are other "triggers" that may be precipitate this disorder such as problems in pregnancy and birth, viral infections, environmental, chemical or pollutant exposure, and allergies to some foods like gluten or dairy products).

Research has also suggested that autism may be a reaction to childhood vaccines, which contain a slew of toxic chemicals including mercury. Many experts are aware of the fact that the immune system of a newborn is not yet developed, so when they are given a vaccine which is meant to stimulate it, it does no good. Thus introducing more toxins than the baby's fragile system can deal with. This toxin build up in their cells prevents their brain from proper functioning, and may lead to autism.  Make sure that you know all the facts before vaccinating your little one so that you can make a wise decision.

Recent studies have shown that Lyme Disease may cause autism in 20% of those infected. Interestingly, it has infected fetuses and babies, who have had no exposure to deer ticks indicating that it is transmitted from mother to child. This occurs because contact with the bacteria at such an early age allows it to go right to the brain where the toxins are produced. About 40% of the time, these toxins get stuck in the brain depleting it of a beneficial protein called "glutathione," which is found in every cell and is the body's "cellular detoxifier", cleansing the blood, lungs and liver. In addition to destroying  viral infections that attack the cells , it is also one of our most important antioxidants. Once glutathione is used up, it cannot be replaced, this prevents the brain from ridding itself of  chemicals, heavy metals and toxins that disrupt normal functioning thus leading to autism. In 60% of the cases there may be an auto-immune response against the brain caused by Lyme Disease. One way to deal with this is to turn off the auto-immune reaction, strengthen the immune system response to the bacterium, therefore allowing the cells to get healthier in order to detoxify adequately and fight infection.

Have you ever wondered why autistic children engage in activities such as spinning, head beating and repetitive mannerisms? According to one article, it is a subconscious attempt by the child to overload his/her sensory system so that itReference shuts down and pain is alleviated. This excruciating pain is caused from brain damage.  When the brain doesn't function properly, the nerves are impaired. Our nerves are surrounded and protected by myelin sheaths that are compromised by our auto-immune response that develops as the system unsuccessfully tries to attack the bacteria or viruses. The consequence of myelin sheath damage is pain. It is very sad to see innocent children suffering for no reason, and there are ways, which I will tell you about in another blog that can help to improve this condition.

Please note that none of this information is inclusive and more research needs to be done. However, there is hope for those suffering from autism. You may look into alternative medical practices, or go to your allopathic family physician for assistance whenever you need it.

Stay tuned for my next blog which will deal with ways to diagnose autism.

In my last blog we took a look at how research and science explained the connection between bipolar disorder and other disorders. Today I want to look at the personal side of the issue and discuss how people living with multiple disorders are coping with them.

As I said, I subscribe to a few blogs written by people who have the courage to share their personal lives with others. A couple of them are people dealing with more than one mental health issue, and they are doing a great service by sharing their experiences with others.

I'd like you to take a look at this blog written by a talented young man who is a published author, as well as a very courageous person. He is dealing with some very hard issues in life, including the combination of bipolar disorder and epilepsy. The amazing thing is that he is willing to share his experiences and personal feelings with us, so that anyone dealing with these issues can see that they are not alone, and anyone who is not dealing with exactly the same thing can gain a better understanding. He discusses how mental health medicines are affecting how he deals with bipolar disorder and epilepsy, as well as a very personal and experienced look at how the two disorders may be linked.

Re-think Mental Illness.I'd also like you to take a look at this blog, written by a gentleman who describes himself as "a former mental health counselor who now lives on the other side of the wall with four concurrent disorders." He has taken up the cause of fighting against the stigma that surrounds mental health disorders by offering an open and honest opinion that doesn't pull any punches. I am thoroughly impressed that he has not only done great things in his life as a counselor, but also continued to help people by sharing his experiences.

The reason I want you to look at these blogs is that we often forget the very personal side of mental health issues. People coping with mental health issues often fall into societies stigmas and are labeled as "That bipolar guy" or "The epileptic one". We often read of the research and scientific side of these issues, but doctors and medical journals rarely write about the patient experience. It takes understanding and community awareness to help fight the stigmas that follow mental health issues, and it's up to each of us to do our part to help.

Click on the picture above to take a look at rethink.org, a great site with information on living with mental health, as well as ways that we all can get involved!

There has been a lot of discussion recently of how mental health issues have common traits, and even how there may be genetic and biological links between disorders. Bipolar disorder seems to be the starting point for a lot of these theories, as it is one of the most intensely studied of all mental health issues. Multiple genes, involving several chromosomes, have been linked to the development of this disorder. It may also share these characteristics with other disorders, such as epilepsy, schizophrenia, and panic disorder. What is unclear is whether these disorders are variations of a single disease, or separate disorders.

BIPOLAR DISORDER AND EPILEPSY

The technical side of this says that neurotransmitters called gamma aminobutyric acid (GABA) and norepinephrine have been implicated in mania. That is important because:
  • GABA helps prevent nerve cells from over-firing.

  • Norepinephrine is a hormone that involves stress.

Some research has associated similar biologic mechanisms in patients with epilepsy and bipolar disorder. As in epilepsy, the more episodes a bipolar disorder patient experiences early in the course of the disease, the more frequent and severe later episodes will be. Antiseizure agents, in fact, play an important role in the treatment of bipolar disorder.

You can read the entire article discussing these findings here.

The research side of this shows that there are many similarities between the two disorders, and that as many as 10% of the people with epilepsy develop bipolar disorder.
Why is this important? There are now mental health tests, and ultimately mental health medicines that are being developed to work on the combined disorders. Understanding the footprint of these disorders will help the development of treatment and therapy options for patients.

Next we'll take a look at the more personal side of this matter by looking at some articles and blogs written by people suffering from a multitude of mental health related issues.

I know this can be a heavy subject, but it's one worth exploring. There are many people out there who suffer from one form of mental health issue or another, and raising community awareness on these issues will help further the understanding of them.

Stay tuned!


A child can ask questions that a wise man cannot answer.  ~Author Unknown


Today I would like to talk about a troubling condition for parents and children alike.  It is called enuresis which is unintentional bladder relief or wetting the bed while asleep.  If you have a little one, aged 3-5, bed-wetting is considered normal and nothing to be concerned about. Usually, the bladder is regulated by a reflex that controls the sphincter and pelvic muscles preventing unwanted urination. More than likely,  bed-wetting occurs because your child has not yet learned to use this reflex.  This is known as primary bed-wetting. If however your little tyke  has learned to control this reflex, and after a few months reverts to this behavior again, it is called secondary enuresis.

If you have concerns about this behavior you should consult your pediatrician. He/she  will have to determine the type of enuresis it is, if it is secondary, there may be underlying emotional or physical problems. After taking a thorough history of potty training methods, sleeping patterns,  delivery complications, if any, your child's weight at birth, and other things that you feel are significant as well as a physical examination, a determination will be made as to the course of treatment to take.

I will briefly talk about physical causes of bed-wetting.
  • Genetic factors, if one parent had enuresis, there is a 45% chance that the child will be a bed-wetter, if both parents suffered from this condition there is a 75% chance of the child inheriting this problem. This happens because there is not enough of an anti-diuretic hormone (ADH) produced during sleep.
  • Bladder size may be a cause of bed-wetting.  If the child's bladder is unusually small, he/she may have a problem holding his water and may have to urinate more frequently.
  • Obstructive Uropathy or an abnormality in the structure of the ureter may cause your child to wet his/her pants during the day or night. Consequently, the bladder is unable to hold a normal amount of water and makes the child less able to control his/her urine.
  • Urinary Tract Infection or UTI if your child is complaining of burning or pain while going to the bathroom.
  • Tonsillar Obstruction if your child breathes through the mouth or snores and is groggy and grumpy in the morning.
  • Diabetes may be another physical cause of bed-wetting.
After your pediatrician has ruled out the above conditions, you may want to look at some psychological factors, and possibly take him/her to a mental health therapist or counselor for help.

Usually psychological problems are the cause of secondary enuresis.  Please continue reading. 
  • Stress is an important factor to consider especially if your child has been dry for a long period of time and suddenly begins soiling the bed at night.  Has he/she experienced something traumatic like the death of a loved one, even a pet. Is there a new baby in the house? Have you moved to a new neighborhood so that your child has to go to a new school.  How well is he/she doing at school, has the teacher noticed any changes? Are you having marital problems, or have you been recently divorced?
  • Toilet training is a very emotional time, if parents are too harsh, or too lax in their training, a child may revert to bed-wetting. As a parent, do you expect too much of your child, if so he/she may soil themselves. If you were too permissive in your training, perhaps beginning toilet training when your child was older, he/she may have poor impulse control.
  • Impulse Inhibition can cause bed-wetting. Is your child able to control his anger? How does he/she act when angry? By not allowing a tyke to express anger often causes daytime incontinence, but may be a factor in bed-wetting. It is not mentally healthy to suppress feelings of anger, grief, rage, etc for adults, let alone children.
  • Secondary Gain There are times when a child wants to get back at a parent (usually the mother) and will wet themselves without even being aware that they are doing it. Ask yourself these questions: What does the child get out of this behavior?  How do you as a parent react to this? How do siblings react? Is the child embarrassed wetting the bed? If your little one is not concerned about this problem, he may deriving some satisfaction from it and it will be more difficult to treat. But with patience, kindness and understanding this condition is curable.
I think that this is enough for now.  Come back for my next blog which will deal with various types of treatment  for bed-wetting in children, from counseling to alternative remedies.


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Man cannot remake himself without suffering, for he is both the marble and the sculptor.  ~Dr. Alexis Carrel

My next two blogs
will focus on eating disorders that affect mostly adolescent girls and young women.  These mental health conditions are known as Anorexia Nervosa and Bulimia.

First up is Anorexia, a mental health condition whose most distinguishing characteristic is the desire to be slim.  Granted, most of us women watch our A woman with Anorexiacalories so that we can keep our weight down, but anorexics have an irrational fear of putting on even one pound. Consequently, they are always monitoring their caloric intake and feel guilty whenever they eat. Women with this mental illness therefore are painfully thin and have no body fat at all, most of them truly look like skin on bones. Their "starvation diet" may cause a complete breakdown of the the fatty tissue lying just below their skin. We need a certain amount of subcutaneous fat to be healthy.

Anorexics are very much out of touch with reality when it comes to their body image, they perceive themselves as fat, when in actuality they are dangerously thin.  A scale is an important part of their daily routine, they don't merely weigh themselves A woman with Anorexiaonce a day, but, rather throughout the day.  They are very obsessive about it. If they do eat, they are compulsive about burning up the calories, so they may exercise vigorously. In addition to this, an anorexic may ingest laxatives and pills to stop their hunger, or they may purge themselves. This is the mental health illness call Bulimia, which I will feature in my next blog.  Some of them even refuse to eat at all, at which point their illness  becomes a hazard to their health. If they go indefinitely without food, they will end up being hospitalized and fed intravenously. If left untreated the mortality rate is about 5-18%.

Those suffering from this disorder may actually be  hungry but still refuse to eat.  They have an extremely poor self image and try to control their surroundings and Ribs of an Anorexictheir emotions by starving themselves. Quite often, eating disorders come from internal and external conflicting forces as well as stress, anger, anxiety, and sadness. Unfortunately, refusing to eat is the only way that an anorexic  deals  with these issues, but it is a very negative way of coping. They may think to themselves, "you can't make me eat", therefore gaining the upper hand, or so they think.   Some people truly believe that they don't deserve to enjoy life's simple pleasures, namely eating, hence, they starve themselves .

Family issues play a very important role in Anorexia Nervosa. If a girl has parents  who are overly protective and smothering, unwilling to bend, are critical of her appearance, including weight,  place too much  emphasis on looks, and in some cases sexually abusive she may become anorexic to rebel against their authority. Refusing to eat is the only way that she will be able to gain some independence and maintain a sense of individuality.

I would be remiss if I didn't mention the fact that society also plays a role in this severe mental illness. Everything we see tells us that "thin is in." Have you ever seen a heavy model? I think not! We are constantly barraged with media messages telling us that we should diet to stay thin. This so called "perfect lean body type" is especially difficult for women because biologically, we are built to have extra weight in certain areas. So many of us may be dissatisfied with the shape of our body and our weight.

There is a way to conquer Anorexia please continue reading

Once organic causes for weight loss are addressed and ruled out, Psychotherapy is essential. There are many counselors and facilities that deal with eating disorders.  Sadly though, many anorexics refuse to get help because they believe that there is nothing wrong with them.  Once they do get help however, attention must be given to proper eating habits, and healthy nutrition. In addition to therapy, there are many alternative remedies out there, such as herbs,  acupressure and relaxation techniques.

Lets talk a little about what to expect from psychotherapy. A therapist will help the anorexic to gain an awareness of some of their subconscious, and or conscious issues. In order for them to feel better, their self-image, self-worth, behavioral patterns, sexual identity and other emotional conflicts leading to their illness will have to be taken care of. Though painful, this will help them to become whole again and to get on with their life. There are also groups that offer support and reassurance for those people with eating disorders. They are quite helpful because they help the anorexic to realize that they are not alone.


Family therapy is a very effective method of helping an adolescent with anorexia, especially since some of their difficulties may stem from their upbringing.  What is important here is to understand the family dynamics that  led to the problem and to help them relate to each other in a more positive and healthy manner. Parents are unaware of the harm that they can do to their children when they expect too much, or are hyper-critical of things that they do. Through the guidance of a qualified family therapist, they can be successful in helping the anorexic to get better.

Let's take a look at ways that the recovering anorexic can be reintroduced to food. First of all, they need to start eating healthy foods by ingesting nutritious soups, fresh fruit smoothies, juices and other liquid meals that are easily digested. Eating many small, high caloric healthy meals is much better for the anorexic than eating three large meals. Hot and spicy foods as well as those that are full of fat and salt should be avoided so as to prevent further damage to an already compromised digestive system.  The addition of multi-vitamins and other natural supplements will also help in preventing deficiencies that come from poor nutrition.

Speaking of nutrition, there is a medicinal herbal tea mixture that helps to enhance the appetite.
I would like to briefly mention that there are many relaxation techniquesWoman meditating they include yoga, deep breathing and meditation to help control stress, discouragement and fear that are part of this illness.

Last but not least is the alternative medical practice of acupressure which can stimulate appetite by working on pressure points.
  • Approximately 20 minutes before eating, apply pressure to the area halfway between the sternum and navel, do this for 3 minutes.
  • You can also press firmly on the bottom of the nail located on the pinky finger for 5 minutes to accomplish the same thing
 Remember, In order to have a healthy mind and body we need to eat healthy foods!


Reference:

The Complete Guide to Natural Healing, International Masters Publishers,
      Pittsburgh, PA.
Anorexia Nervosa














Pain of mind is worse than pain of body.  ~Latin Proverb

Our ancient ancestors were very savvy, they understood that sunlight helped lift people's spirits.  Remember Hippocrates, from one of my earlier blogs, he used A sunny daysunlight to help his patients recuperate from illnesses. Hundreds of years later, European psychiatrists and psychotherapists utilized light to aid mentally ill patients. It is no surprise that today, light is hailed as an effective  treatment for Seasonal Affective Disorder or SAD in adults and children, as well as some skin conditions and jaundice in newborn babies.

As I said before in my blog on the mental health condition SAD, when there is less light during the winter, it effects our internal clock or circadian rhythms. Controlled by our pineal gland which reacts to light, a disruption of our body's circadian rhythms, causes us to be depressed, it compromises our immune system, and makes it difficult for us to rest at night. An increase in light helps to restore our natural cycle thus alleviating some of the debilitating symptoms of SAD.  Light also provides us with vitamin D which helps to prevent brittle bones, aids the absorption of calcium, and strengthens our teeth.

If you have mild depression, try to spend time outside everyday during the winter so that you are exposed to natural sunlight.  Walking is a good exercise and is also good for your psyche. You may also purchase a full spectrum light which imitates sunlight, and use it in a lamp that is inside of your house.

For those of you out there who have severe symptoms of SAD, your mental health practitioner may suggest that you undergo phototherapy or light therapy. Bright lightWoman using a light box that simulates natural sunlight emanates from a light box or board that sits on a table. You would sit in front of it, for approx 45 minutes to an hour every morning  looking at it occasionally. It is essential to keep your eyes opened because for phototherapy to work, light needs to travel through your retina to your brain, thus affecting various bodily functions. Your symptoms should improve within a few weeks or until the long awaited spring solstice arrives bringing an increase in daylight.

A note of caution. Ultraviolet light has 3 parts, each with its own pros and cons. UV-A rays are the least troublesome but they may precipitate skin cancer. UV-B rays produce Vitamin D, but may cause skin to age. RV-C rays are not good for your eyes.  Avoid light therapy if you have an eye ailment such as glaucoma, cataracts, or detachment of your retina.  Be sure that you are not taking any medications that make your skin sensitive to light. Some other side effects may be headache, pain and eyestrain.  Please make sure that you check with your physician before starting light therapy.



Remember, that there are things you can do to stop the symptoms of SAD, so don't think that you have to suffer with it for the rest of your life.


Reference

The Complete Guide to Natural Healing, International Masters Publishers,
      Pittsburgh, PA.
Seasonal Affective Disorder Reference
Seasonal Affective Disorder & Children








Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day.  ~Author Unknown

The holidays are over, It's almost February, the days are cold, the nights are long and you are feeling depressed. There are two more long months of winter and it seems like an eternity. You keep thinking to yourself, "I wish it were spring." Sound familiar? Many of us feel a little blue at this time of year. We may be a bit lethargic, or  wish that we could stay in our warm bed a little longer, some of us even gain some weight. This is normal.  However, if you are really down, have no energy, are having difficulties at work as well as with your significant others and can't see a way through it, you may have the mental health condition known as Seasonal Affective Disorder, or SAD. This condition can be debilitating because is stops you from engaging in your usual activities.

Symptoms of SAD are very similar to melancholia, but they occur during a certain time of year, mainly late fall through winter and continue until  the spring thaw when there is an increase in sunlight. The mental health condition  depression is not  only seasonal, but it can manifest itself  at anytime.

Here are some symptoms that are associated with SAD
  • Mood changes An overwhelming feeling of gloom, despondency, self- loathing,  easily angered. There  might also be bouts of crying and extreme sensitivity to criticism.
  • Lack of energy Feeling listless, and sluggish for no reason.
  • Lack of pleasure Things that you loved doing are no longer fun.  Daily activities are now drudgery. You are not satisfied with anything you do and beat yourself up about it by feeling guilty.
  • Changes in rest patterns You find yourself sleeping much longer, sometimes all day.
  • Difficulty focusing  Little or no motivation to complete tasks that you usually breeze through.
  • Changes in diet You have cravings for "comfort foods", like sweets and carbs. You may also experience a weight gain, which of course adds to your feelings of self-hate.
  •  Lack of socializing You have no desire to do things with your friends. This effects your self-esteem and enhances the negative feelings that you are having about yourself.
About six out of every one hundred individuals are bothered by this disorder, it can affect children as well as teens and young adults beginning in their twenties. Women are four times more susceptible to SAD than men, and people who have other family members suffering from depression may have a predisposition to it. Another interesting phenomenon about this mental health condition is that those of us living in the southern latitudes are less apt to experience SAD than our northern neighbors because daylight hours last longer there.

It is believed that diminished exposure to the sun alters the brain's production of  two important chemicals, melatonin and serotonin, that help to regulate our sleeping andToo much darkness waking patterns. Melatonin is essential for sleep and is produced primarily at night while we rest.  During the dark winter months,  the production of melatonin increases and can make us drowsy and lethargic. An increase of light is needed for the production of serotonin.  So as you can see, we have the perfect conditions for depression, too much darkness and not enough light.

I would like to make you aware of a few natural alternative remedies that are employed to help keep the symptoms of SAD in check.

  • Foot reflexology helps to alleviate the stress and tension from SAD. This type of therapy utilizes the application of tender massage to pressure points on our foot that correspond to various body parts. 
  • Herbal teas are helpful Try Hops tea which has a relaxing effect when you are especially nervous and irritable.  Pour 1 cup of boiling water over 1 tsp of hops. Let sit for 10 minutes, strain and enjoy.
  • Exercise does wonders because it releases those "feel good endorphins". Try yoga,   tai chi meditation , or even vigorous exercise.
Psychotherapy is an option that I would like to mention.Talking to a well trained A therapy sessionprofessional who understands your mental health, really helps. One of the symptoms of depression is extreme negative feelings about yourself and life in general.  A therapist can help you gain an awareness of why you have this condition and assist in setting up an appropriate method of treatment.  In addition to counseling, prescription medications such as antidepressants may be prescribed as they are used to regulate the production of melatonin and serotonin.


Well, I think that is enough for today!!  Please stay tuned for my next blog on Light Therapy, a self healing technique that has been instrumental in the treatment of Seasonal Affective disorders.

References

The Complete Guide to Natural Healing, International Masters Publishers,
      Pittsburgh, PA.
Seasonal Affective Disorder Reference



"Drag your thoughts away from your troubles... by the ears, by the heels, or any other way you can manage it."  ~Mark Twain


Today
I would like to continue with my series of stress related disorders namely, depression. We all sing the "Blues" once in a while, especially during the winter months when there is less sunlight. As a matter of fact there is a mental health condition called Seasonal Affective Disorder or SAD, which is a form of depression that comes from diminished sunlight. 
There are millions of people worldwide, who suffer from depression which can be a debilitating mental condition. Research has shown your negative feelings and pessimism are related to physiological changes in your brain. When there is anBrain showing depression Healthy brainimbalance of certain chemicals called neurotransmitters that control signals in your brain and nerves, you may feel extreme melancholy. Your brain needs the right amount of these chemicals to keep you feeling good and emotionally healthy. Depression therefore occurs when the messages between brain cells are not distributed evenly causing  a disruption of your inner communication system.

A good example of this concept is the childhood game of telephone, the first person whispers a message to another person, the second person to someone else, and so on. Usually by the time the message gets to the final person and he/she has to repeat it out loud, the information is inaccurate and may be jumbled up so that it makes no sense. This is what occurs when there is miscommunication between neurons, the final signals are scrambled.

A combination of physical imbalances in the brain as well as environmental factors may cause melancholy.  Genetics are one, if there is depression in family members, this trait may be passed on from generation to generation. Trauma and stressful situations may cause depression, such as illness or death of a loved one, major financial worries, job issues, etc. Low self-esteem can also trigger melancholia because of a negative and pessimistic attitude towards life.  I would like to reiterate, that we all feel these emotions at one time or another, but when they are extreme and completely stop us from acting, it is time to get psychological help.

If you think that you may be suffering from depression, here are some of the symptoms. 
  • You cannot concentrate on anything
  • You may experience insomnia.
  • You have a lack of appetite.
  • You have intense feelings of sadness with intermittent episodes of crying.
  • You are always agitated.
  • You feel as if you have no hope.
  • You entertain thoughts of suicide.
Please don't feel there is no way out of depression, help awaits. All you have to do is ask for it.

The next part of my blog will deal with remedies for coping with depression.

There are many reputable psychiatrists and or psychotherapists out there who can give you the counseling that can help you deal with your depression. Make sure that you choose someone that you can trust and feel at ease with. Therapy can be quite painful because troubling issues will be brought out.  With gentle guidance, your counselor can help you to cope with your problems and teach you how to deal with them in a rational and healthy manner.  More importantly, he/she will help you to move on with your life.A combination of therapy and anti-depressant drugs that help balance your brain chemicals have proven to be an effective way to ease this mental illness. There are also many alternative approaches that are effective.

Nutrients that improve your mood.
  • B Vitamins help your brain to run smoothly. Emotionally, they lift your spirits, calm your anxiety, and help to keep you energized.
  • Amino Acids, are proteins that the neurotransmitters come from. Serotonin, is the chemical that anti-depressant drugs try to replicate, and Melatonin is the transmitter involved with our body's sleeping and waking rhythms. You can well imagine, if these are out of balance, you will not feel good.  Therefore, it is important that you ingest enough amino acids. They are are found in foods like salmon, brown rice and turkey. Another amino acid, Tyrosine, is needed to produce the chemical Dopamine and Norepinephrine which also keep your brain function running smoothly. These are found naturally in bananas, dairy products, almonds and avocados. If you would prefer, you may purchase purchase these amino acids as supplements.  Do not take Tyrosine if your doctor has prescribed an MAO inhibitor which is an anti-depressant drug.
By the way, St. Johns Wort, as discussed in previous blogs, is an effective way to improve your mood and can be used for mild to moderate depression. It has less side effects than many of the drugs on the market today. Please check with your doctor before taking this.

Here is a tea blend that has proven to be a good way to help those of you who have difficulty functioning.

  • Mix 2 tbsp each of Yarrow, St. John's Wort and Peppermint leaves.
  • Put 1 cup of boiling water over 1 tbsp of the combination. 
  • Let sit for 10 minutes, strain and drink.
  • You may drink 2-4 cups a day for a few weeks.
Sometimes allergies to certain foods can cause mild depression. Stay away from too much saturated fats, sugars and complex carbohydrates. Don't drink alcohol because it is a depressant.  Do try to exercise.  It gives you energy and releases "feel good endorphins" which are just what you need.

Remember,  there is hope for those of you who suffer from depression!


Reference

The Complete Guide to Natural Healing, International Masters Publishers,
      Pittsburgh, PA.
Depression Guide

"Worrying is like a rocking chair, it gives you something to do, but it gets you nowhere."  ~Glenn Turner


Have you ever been in a crowd
of people when suddenly your heart starts to race and your breathing quickens? Then without warning, you find yourself unable to catch your breath, you break out into a sweat, and become lightheaded and dizzy. This is known as a panic attack and is usually manifested by shortness of breath that causes us to hyperventilate. When we hyperventilate, we exhale more carbon dioxide than we generate, thus decreasing the levels of carbon dioxide in our body. When this occurs we feel lightheaded and dizzy. Over 90 million people around the world suffer from this malady. So you are not alone.

A panic attack is a stress related disorder coming from extreme anxiety and fear. ReferencePeople who have this mental health illness may fear that they are having a heart attack because the symptoms are similar. In addition to these signs, you may tremble, have chills, hot flashes, feel nauseous, have cramps, have tingling or numbness in your hands, feel as if you are  choking, and/or feel like you have left your body.  As you can well imagine,  this sickness can hold you hostage and destroy your life.

You may ask yourself why is this happening? Sometimes a panic attack arises for no apparent reason, but most of the time there are underlying psychological issues that need to be dealt with. Studies have shown that most people who have this illness are very uncomfortable in social situations, have suffered a childhood trauma such as abuse, are perfectionists, or merely worry about everything.

There is help out there for those of you who suffer from this debilitating syndrome. If it is severe, you should consult with your physician to make sure you are not having heart problems. Once physical illness is ruled out you may want to consult with a counselor or psychotherapist who will help you get to the root of your problems. Your mental health counselor may suggest prescription medication to help alleviate the symptoms as well as therapy. Alternative, natural remedies may also be effective.

Cognitive and Behavior Therapy

Cognitive therapy deals with the mental processes of perception, memory, judgment, and reasoning. It is quite helpful because it works on changing the underlying thought patterns that are causing your panic attacks. It is important for you to learn how to alter your negative ways of thinking so that your anxiety and fear subsides. Once you are able to do this, the next step is to actually change your behavior, this is known as behavior therapy. In the comfort of a psychotherapists office, he/she will help you to identify the habits that are causing the attacks and teach you to use positive thoughts to alleviate the symptoms. Perhaps your therapist will suggest that you join a support group where you will relate to others having similar symptoms, as well as those who have been successful in controlling their anxieties.

Here are some relaxation techniques that are effective

Take a bath to help you relax and soothe away your fears. Mix 2 tsp of jasmine oil with 5 tbsp of heavy cream. Put this blend into your bath water and submerge yourself for about 20-25 minutes. Jasmine warms you up while helping you to feel more in balance. Lavender and Rose oils are also good for stress and anxiety.  

You may be able to prevent hyperventilating by consciously breathing slowly and deeply as soon as you feel the symptoms coming on. Inhale into your diaphragm and hold your breath for three seconds and exhale.  Your exhale should be slower than your inhale. While doing this, try to visualize yourself breathing the fear out of your body.

Biofeedback has been used extensively in treating panic attacks.  Sit comfortably in a chair and move your buttocks to the edge. Make sure that your feet are flat on the ground. Place your arms on your thighs allowing your hands to dangle between your legs without meeting. Next, let your body collapse inward while your head hangs forward and close your eyes. Remember to relax your neck muscles.  Repeat this technique whenever you feel stressed out and anxious.

Yoga is a wonderful way to ease tension, anxiety and fear. The "fire-breathing" pose, a type of hatha yoga is quite helpful. Sit on the floor or a pillow with your legs crossed. Keep your spine straight and raise your arms above your head. Keep your palms together. Close your eyes and become aware of your abdomen. Inhale and exhale rapidly for a few times. Next, let the air out completely. Finally, take a deep breath as you exhale, drop your arms slowly. You may repeat this exercise whenever you need to.

Try Medicinal Teas
  • Motherwort tea is very good for an accelerated heart beat that comes from anxiety. Take 1 cup of boiling and pour it over 1 tsp of the herb that has been dried. Allow the tea to steep for 10 minutes and strain. Drink one cup 3 times a day for 2-4 weeks. Don't add any sweeteners.
  • Hops tea is used to reduce stress and nervousness. Add 1 cup of boiling water to 1 tsp of hop flowers. Let sit for 15 minutes and strain. Ingest 1 cup 2-3 times a day.

As discussed in a previous blog, floral essences are quite useful in soothing away your anxiety.
  • Rescue remedy is a floral essence that is used for emergencies, traumas and panic attacks.
  • Aspen and Cherry-plum essences help you to become more confident.
 
Remember  to Take Deep Breaths and Try to Relax!!!


References

The Complete Guide to Natural Healing, International Masters Publishers,
          Pittsburgh, PA.

Hormonal Imbalances and Panic Attacks in Women
Answers about Anxiety and Panic Attacks
Native Remedies


Today it’s threatening to snow, the temperature is hovering below freezing and sunshine is nowhere to be found.  The Christmas parties are over, the bowl games have ended and the presents have long since been returned.  The sun sets at 5:30.  It’s cold and dark when I crawl out of bed in the morning (and will continue to be for several more weeks) and in a few days the mailman will deliver last month’s credit card bills.

 

It’s a typical January day and I’m feeling down.

 

I am, however, not alone.  Regardless of whether or not they’ve been diagnosed with depression or other mental illness, millions of people experience January blues.  Therapists often compare the let down that occurs after a two-month celebration to running a marathon.  If you’re like most people, you plan and prepare for the holidays and before you know it, they’re over and you’re exhausted – even sad – for a number of reasons.

 

For starters, there’s all that time you spend with family.  For me, a family gathering is similar to a high school reunion when I find myself worrying about what “loved ones” will think or say.  My family is an odd lot, a group of people who don’t always mix well.  Over the holidays, tempers flare, sarcastic comments are the norm and I find that I don’t ever spend time with them without some sense of anxiety…and even dread.  When January rolls around, I’ve already had plenty of time to mentally replay conversations, stew about an insensitive remark and reflect on how I’m still stuck in the same place I was a year ago.  Adding to that stress is the arrival of credit card statements and the start of my holiday spending hangover (which means retail therapy is out of the question.)

 

In the past, it was easy for me to fall into the self-pity mode but recently I learned not to give into the dark moods.  For me, three easy techniques work:  exercise, something to look forward to and reconnecting with friends.  There are some days when I just don’t feel like going to the gym so I pop in a yoga DVD and after about 20 minutes I feel both refreshed and relaxed.   Although I can’t run off to someplace tropical, I can call a friend and start planning our annual 4th of July trip to the beach.  Pouring over catalogs and choosing the perfect beach house for ’08 is a great way to talk about the good times we had in the past and the great times to come.  If either of those fail, I pull out these pictures of my two favorite guys – my husband Bill and my son Justin.  I can’t look at them and not smile.


 

Have a nice weekend!

 

---Danielle


"Worry never robs tomorrow of its sorrow, it only saps today of its joy"
 ~Leo Buscaglia


How many of you out there have felt that queasy feeling in the pit of your stomach when preparing for or taking a test? Well, if you have, you are not alone!  A little bit of anxiety is fine since it can actually enhance your performance. But, those of us who have an unhealthy fear of failing, probably will fail because it is the stress about taking the exam that causes the failure, not the exam itself. When anxiety hinders our ability to concentrate and complete tasks, it becomes a mental health disorder and should be dealt with in counseling with a certified therapist.

Learning to think in a positive manner is very important in helping us to deal with test anxiety. Try saying to yourself over and over, "I will do well on my exam". Gaining an awareness of how to think in a positive way and learning how to keep thoughts of the exam in perspective decreases apprehension.

Here are a few suggestions that you can use to help alleviate the tension from test anxiety.

Give yourself enough time to prepare, don't save everything for the last minute as it causes needless stress. Above all, don't stay up all night cramming. Relaxation is essential, make sure that you get enough shut eye. Give your brain time to absorb what you studied.
                                                                                                                
If you have a headache from anxiety, give yourself a head massage. Put your fingertips on either side of your head, just above the ears. Massage this spot with small circular motions and move to the top of your head.  Finish by massaging your temple and jaw.

Relaxing exercises like yoga are a great way to ease physical symptoms of test anxiety. You might like to try Qi Gong which is an old Chinese routine for health that decreases tension, anxiety and stress. It consists of a series of gentle movements, meditation and breathing exercises.

Eating right is very important. You need food to nourish your brain cells so that you can concentrate. Take the following vitamins:
  • Vitamin A helps to maintain healthy adrenal gland function. Carrots, tomatoes and apricots are filled with carotene which changes into Vitamin A.
  • Vitamin B Complex strengthens the nervous system and has a soothing effect.
  • Vitamin C is found in fruits such as oranges and vegetables like peppers and Brussels sprouts. It fortifies your immune system and it improves your mood.
Some herbs are beneficial for calming you down they are:
  • Valerian - It might make you sleepy, but it has a calming effect on nerves and allows you to concentrate better. Take a good size dose before your exam.
  • St. Johns Wort is helpful for depression and for those who are extremely afraid of failure.  Use caution, however when ingesting this remedy it makes your skin very sensitive to the sun.
  • Kava Kava contains ingredients that help the central nervous system ease stress, tension and fear, allowing you to complete your test. Do be careful, however when using this as it may slow down your reaction times.  You may also experience difficulty with coordination and balance.
Last but not least are few homeopathic remedies, which have no side effects, that I would like to mention.
  • Argentum Nitricum for test anxiety, as well as the fear of not meeting a deadline.
  • Gelsemium for test anxiety and extreme fear of social situations.


Information on this blog is not intended to take the place of your doctor, mental health therapist, or homeopathic practitioner.  If you are unsure about whether to take a remedy listed here, please consult with your physician.

Remember to eat right, and get enough rest!


References

The Complete Guide to Natural Healing, International Masters Publishers,
      Pittsburgh, PA.
Robert W. White; The Abnormal Personality, The Ronald Press Co.,
      New York, 1964